Challenges of dating a divorced man with children
There will be occasions where they have to attend together such as birthdays for the kids, communions (if they are catholic), children's events like soccer game, competitions, weddings and to some extent family holidays.
She may not be sharing a bed with him, but she still shares his life which means no matter how much you want it to just be two of you, it will always be three of you, regardless of whether she is in good or bad terms with him.
When you are in the infant stages of dating, this may not seem like a big deal to you, but gradually this will become more and more apparent.
Forget “I do” – If you are the kind of girl that someday wants to get married, then you won't achieve that by dating a divorced man.
It is very likely that while your divorced man was married, he and his then wife had mutual friends.
After their divorce, those mutual friends tend to choose one of the divorcees, which is most likely the wife.
You will always feel like an intruder in his family.
Even if you met him after he divorced, in the eyes of everyone around you, you are the other woman.